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Understanding People-Pleasing Through the Lens of IFS and Nervous System Science
Ever feel like you're always saying "yes" when you really want to say "no"? Discover the science behind people-pleasing and learn how to break free from old patterns. This post explores how IFS (Internal Family Systems) and nervous system science can help you understand your people-pleaser, set compassionate boundaries, and calm your nervous system for lasting change.
Why Saying No Feels Hard: Overcoming Guilt and Discomfort in Setting Boundaries
Are you struggling to say 'no' without feeling guilty or anxious? You're not alone. For many, setting boundaries feels impossible due to fears of rejection, guilt, and discomfort. This post explores why setting limits is so difficult and provides actionable tips for overcoming the emotional barriers, drawing from IFS therapy insights.
Types of Boundaries Every Woman Needs to Know Acrording to Nedra Glover Tawwab
Setting boundaries is a powerful act of self-care and empowerment. According to Nedra Glover Tawwab, there are several types of boundaries women must learn to set to protect their well-being and strengthen relationships. From physical to emotional to mental boundaries, each type serves a different purpose in helping you navigate your personal and professional life. In this post, we dive into Tawwab's wisdom on boundary-setting in the modern world.
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I offer 60- and 90-minute individual therapy sessions in Fort Collins, CO, using an IFS (Internal Family Systems) and depth-focused approach. My work is neurodivergent-affirming and queer-affirming, and I specialize in supporting high-achieving women and femmes navigating anxiety, ADHD, perfectionism, relationship struggles, career stress and burnout, and the broader challenges of early-mid adulthood.
If you're curious whether working together might be a good fit, I'd love to connect!